Number 1: When someone is having a bad day or a rant do not, I repeat, DO NOT, tell that person to “chill” all you are going to do by saying this is make them even angrier.
Number 2: When someone is talking to you and saying about something that they are struggling with do not tell them “it’s not that hard, I used to do it easily” again you will just make them angry.
Number 3: Do not ignore someone’s contributions, or the fact that they came up with the idea in the first place.
Number 4: Make sure that you remember commitments that you have made with someone and do not bail on them at the Last Minute.
Number 5: DO NOT TELL YOUR SON THAT HE ISN’T TAKING CARE OF HIS DAUGHTER AND ISN’T ABLE TO COPE WITH THE FACT SHE WAS UP ALL NIGHT CRYING, NEITHER OF THEM HAD HAD ANY SLEEP, DO NOT, DO FUCKING NOT, TELL HIM THAT THE REASON HE IS STRUGGLING WITH IT IS BECAUSE HE’S “A MAN AND IS NOT IN TUNE WITH HIS DAUGHTER BECAUSE HE ISN’T A WOMAN”
FUCK YOU, THAT HAS ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH BEING MALE OR FEMALE. THE FACT THAT THE LITTLE ONE WAS UP ALL NIGHT CRYING AND THAT EVERYTIME SHE FELL ASLEEP IN MY ARMS AND I PUT HER IN BED SHE STARTED CRYING AGAIN BECAUSE SHE IS TEETHING AND HAS A COLD.
DON’T YOU FUCKING DARE TELL ME IT’S BECAUSE I AM A MAN THAT IS THE PROBLEM.
These are all things that have happened to me in the last 24 hours