Life never works out the way you planned it.
When I was younger, I was completely useless with most things I never really figured out where I fit in in life.
I was always the outsider, I never belonged to any particular group I floated around, I would talk to everyone, but for the most part, I felt invisible. Especially when I came to women.
I always ended up the “friend” there were a few that I was interested in and wanted to pursue but I lacked the confidence to approach them and when I did I always got shot down. In a way, I would always meddle with my own fate. I ended up being the one that they would turn to for advice or when they needed a shoulder to cry on and me being me could never bring myself to take advantage of the situation. I could never forgive myself if I did.
I had feelings for a few, but it wasn’t until many, many years later I would meet a woman that I truly loved and that she loved me back. Unfortunately, that never worked out. It’s a long and complicated story but let’s just boil it down to Long Distance doesn’t work.
Fast forward, and now I am married with the most beautiful baby girl on the planet. (I know that everyone says that about their kids but in my case, it’s true, look at those eyes? How can you resist those eyes?)
Once I got married and put the ring on, a weird thing started to happen
(Yes, that is my actual ring, I designed it myself)
Ever since I have put this thing on women have been throwing themselves at me, some to the point that they could be called stalkers, but it is insane, what is it about this little band of metal that suddenly makes women want me?
I will admit that there have been times where it has been tempting, but I would never do that. Even through the really rough times, it is not a line that I would cross.
Some of the things I’ve been sent (videos, pictures, etc.,) have been well, let’s just say, rather graphic.
To be fair some of this did start when I started writing and posting erotic fiction, something that I haven’t done for a long time, I seem to have lost the knack for it.
But I don’t understand why this one little band of gold can have such an effect on some women?
Can someone explain why it is that now that I have this ring on that I am suddenly no longer invisible? Why women seem to want me now?
Just the other week I was out with the little one, just the two of us, and some woman came up to me and started cooing over her, and who could blame her. Now I am completely dense and useless at picking these things up, but I realise later that she was flirting with me and was waiting for me to ask her out.
Now don’t get me wrong if I was single I would have once I realised she was beautiful and nice to talk to.
The weird thing is when I got home, put the little one down and put the shopping away that I realised she had slipped a small piece of paper into my jacket pocket with her phone number on it.
That struck me as really strange, that has never happened to me before. She knew I am married and actually asked about the wife when we were talking, so it’s not like she thought I was available.
It happens a lot online as well.
Last year I had a friend I would talk to a lot, but the fact I was married was mentioned when we started talking but never really brought up again, and she started to fall in love with me. Again, me being completely dense didn’t pick up on this, and she was heartbroken when I freaked out and needed to talk to my friend when I found out the wife was pregnant.
She thought that we had something that I didn’t see and I feel like I broke her heart and a few days after that she stopped talking to me, and I haven’t heard from her since.
If possible could one of you lovely women who follow my blog explain this to me? Why does this happen?
I am so confused.